Anonymous asked:

Noticed your tag about switching to the ask blog so here I am ;). Last question. Do you think there should be anything I should be concerned about because I am a guy? My SO is female. I ask because a lot of the regular crowd of people out there may perceive a male looking for this kind of thing differently to a female.

Some ladies out there might be quick to think you are just looking to cheat, its one of the reasons i like the quick meet up on the first date. It clears right then and there that she is okay with what is happening.

Your girlfriend’s preferances also matter, if she is like my other bf’s wife…she don’t wanna hear it or see it. Its his biz as long as he comes home to her. She wants to know about new people, make sure he is safe, and when he will be home. But she don’t want to hear about where he safely stuck that cock while he was out XD

She loves me because I’m always respectful she doesn’t want me groping’n’droolin all over her hubby while we hang out, so I put myself in a more casual friendzone while around her so i don’t key off her jealousies :3 its taken a while to warm up to eachother (like introducing a new cat to a household with a cat already home in that territory. I don’t do anything to get bapped, and now we are good buddies because i didn’t need a bapping.) but now its been a lot more comfortable.

Pretty much if you are upfront and aren’t hustling for a three-way or a unicorn, and are respectful…the right people will receive you well :D